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When Other People Cause You to Drown in Guilt

Guilt comes from the belief of being wrong in some way - or is it more about carrying the responsbility for someone else’s unhappiness and not doing what they wanted? Guilt is an extremely powerful emotion that can seep deep in to the bones. In my opinion, the...

Does Crying Mean Weakness? Understanding Tears in the South Asian Community

How many times have we been on the receiving end or have even said the words ‘stop crying’, ‘be strong’, ‘big boys don’t cry’, or ‘big girls don’t cry’. The underlying message behind these phrases tells the individual that they are weak for crying - when the truth is...

The Silent Damage of Manipulation and Emotional Abuse

Manipulation is hidden, secretive, dangerous, and controlling behaviour that negatively influences another person’s life to the benefit of the abuser. This is an abusive trait that often goes unnoticed by many, especially those individuals who have experienced some...
The Pressure of Status in South Asian Communities

The Pressure of Status in South Asian Communities

In South Asian communities stretching across India, Pakistan, Bangladesh, Nepal, and Sri Lanka, and among families across the world, the concept of “status” holds deep social and emotional weight. It shapes how people live, what they value, and how they see themselves...

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